Ekaj is the absolute epitome of that statement.
My personal logline for the film is:
"A transgender boy sells his body for pimps and drugs in order to survive on the streets of New York while his new found friendship reveals his true objective in life."
Just when you can't figure out if Ekaj is relatable, likable or interesting, you start to wonder why he is the way he is. When the big reveal happens in the film, it snaps you into Ekaj's internal struggle, and you suddenly get hooked into the film due to the insight of the origin of his pain.
Although I could not relate to these characters and their exteriors, I could relate to their interior struggles and emotions. This film brings a deeper understanding to the people that we neglect and forget.
If you are selling your body out on the streets, doing major hard street drugs makes that life bearable. Most people frown upon this and neglect it. Just for a second, how could you possibly relate to anything remotely close to this? You should not go around judging people that have to do this to survive. It is not a glorious life but people get trapped into this world every single day.
If you put on Ekaj's shoes and walk in them during any ten-minute segment in the film, you can understand how hard it is to live life without guidance, community, family and anyone you can trust. Life is hard because no one understands him.
But Mecca tries to understand and befriend him. The two create a civil platonic union between each other.
There are people everywhere who suffer more than you and have problems greater than us. They are out there far away. Yes, they are.
You wouldn't want to trade your problems with anyone else.
Sometimes the best of friends let each other live life the only way they know how. Friendship does not necessarily mean that you need to push to fix each other's problems. Personally, I have a very good friend who has a major issue in their life. I don't try to change it. Friends just need to be friends. Mecca and Ekaj have a quintessential friendship. The kind where two people meet just like in pre-school.
Remember, "The Zos Knows".
The Cat of Cinema